Behavior Improvements in affect thanks to the medication

I always celebrate the little things he does, but this one was a show stopper! Since starting his current placement, William has never had a whole week (5 days) of good behavior. We've tried diet, sensory vests, bumpy seats, fidget toys, weighted lap blankets, sensory breaks... (you name it, we've tried it). We were lucky to get 3 days a week with a good check mark AND he has a TSS. But this week, since starting medication (we didn't even inform his teachers that we started the meds so she has no idea) he finally got 5 good days in a row. He is usually dinged for not being able to sit still or not paying attention and not following directions. His teacher is quick to check these boxes if he does anything to hinder his education like not copying notes or just generally staring out of the window. This week, her comments were that William has been very good in class and is able to participate and keep up with other classmates. He is able to focus and retain the information given to him. He also is thriving with his personality and is able to express himself better when speaking to us and telling us about his day. On the weekends, we are not giving him the medication and letting him have a break. We totally see the difference from giving him meds to not having the medication. He is back to his old self, but at least we recognize it and see how it is helping him. We don't give him the maximum dose, but just enough to get him through his day. 

As his mom, I still have reservations about medicating my child for school, but I do see that he is much happier with his school and academic performance and he is so proud of himself. He is excited to do good in school and not to be so down on himself when he was trying so hard to concentrate. Sometimes he would tell us "my brain isn't working" and I would feel so bad for him knowing that he is trying is best but just not able to perform like he wanted to. The medication is helping him focus on the things he wants to accomplish instead of worrying about his movements and his behavior. We will continue to monitor his progress and not give him the medicine unless he really needs it. Now if we could just find a good placement for him, now that he's happy and thriving....... 

Life is never dull for this complex, sweet, and loving little man I am blessed to raise. 

What good is school choice, if there are no schools to choose from....

And the saga for a new school continues..... unbeknownst to me......
Yesterday we all come home from a fine day of work and school to discover that the school I registered both children to has kindly refunded our money and as you can see from the letter, will only accept Danielle to be tested for their fine establishment. Keep in mind that I registered the children in March and paid the fee in cash so that there would be no problems. I was so upset last night thinking that they waited over 2 months to tell me that they were not willing to accept my son. They had not asked me for his IEP or any information regarding his disability. I did disclose that he has Autism and ADHD, but that is the only information I had to give them. Based on just this alone, they kindly forwarded this letter basically stating that they would not accept William, but would consider Danielle. Now as a parent, and a student studying to become a special education teacher, I have to say that I am quite frustrated by the ignorance of school officials when it comes to children with learning differences. They know NOTHING and continue to perpetuate stereotypes in regards to students. I am not exactly sure why they decided to tell me so late in the school year and why they decided to preface that they had 30 children in their classroom (which makes no difference since a public school class size is 35+ anyway in our neighborhood school). My only questions is, why are the people in charge the most ignorant and untolerable people. They don't ask questions and they waste time that I do not have.
Finding a good school for your special needs child is a very long and exhaustive process. For them to not even ask for documents or information from me to see if he would be able to thrive (which I am confident he will based on his progress and his meds). It is totally frustrating to speak with these people (mind you they are supposed to be somewhat religious) but are extremely dismissive and non-supportive. They did not even ask to see his IEP, they just denied him off of his disability. I am not sure why schools leave people like this in charge, and then wonder why they are closing unproductive drop out schools that are not helping our students. I find it absolutely appauling that they leave people in these positions of power, yet they are not educated on children with learning differences and are fearful that these children will bring them down in some way. So much for religious schools being open to all types of children. WOW! Isn't that a shock! A Catholic school discriminating. Who knew?! Now I'm perpetuating a stereotype huh....
I do plan on following up with the Principal to see what the real deal was and I am going to follow-up with the Archdiocese of Philadelphia. What good is school choice, if there are no schools to choose from?